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If you discovered that your drunken boyfriend had gotten a blowjob at a party from a stranger whose name he didn't even know, would you be bothered by this? I might add this was a couple of years ago, before we knew each other. He just admitted it to me and I've been weird about it ever since. I haven't even been able to talk to him. I can't get it off my mind. I've just totally lost respect for him for it. I realize people make mistakes but it's really bothering me. =/ He does regret it at least but still.
So..uh.. what's wrong with me? How can I stop holding this against him? Do I have a right to look down on him for this?
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Well I would respect him for being honest with you. If this happened before you met I do not see anything really that could bother you unless it is the feeling that how could someone do something like that with someone that they do not know. Some people are into this and in his case it might be because he was drunk. Perhaps h has learned his lesson. Now if this happened after you were together well that would be a problem. I would talk to him and let him know that what he did makes you feel uncomfortable. Perhaps what you need is reassurance that he will not do this again and that he would definitly not do it while you are together. Good Luck and be thanksful fo his honesty.
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Thanks a lot for the advice. You're right, it's good he was honest with me.
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