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Q: im extemely shy when it comes to new people. im going to a different high school. all my friends in 4 months. it so hard to talk to people unless their friends if im with atleast 1 im crazyer than hell lol. but i cant talk to other girls but i can talk to guys. i just dont know what to do. 13/f
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i understand what you mean by it being hard to talk to people, but there are several things you can do to make it easier on yourself. first, as cheesy as it sounds, smiling and saying hi is the best way to meet people. REMEMBER, other high schoolers are just as shy and self-concious as you are, so when you seem to give them the "cold-shoulder" because you're shy, they could see that as a message to leave you alone. i would also say that getting some friends that are girls BEFORE guys is very important, because they're your support system. as easy-going and fun as guys are, they are guys, and they'll get tired of you if you hang around them a lot because they like their "guy time." besides, girls in high school can become vicious and jealous bitches when they see that you go immediately to guys your first day of school. of course, you should meet boys AND girls, but i would suggest you find some girls that you fit in with first.
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i just dont like girls as friends theres to much drama so i dont know how to talk to them...
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Hii I'm Mel. I've been through a lot and I've been my own counseler way too many times, so I've basically dissected many situations. You could call me crazy, whatever, we all are. I kind of have a borderline insane interest in the idea of fashion and creativity, and also in the French Revolution. I LOVE music, I could give you the soundtrack of my life for a million dollars. Umm yeah that's it. BY THE WAY, I would very much like to have a line forming all the way outside the funeral home the day of my wake. :)
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Things I've experienced, therefore your benefits..: eating disorders, depression, suicide, heartache, sucky friends, sucky friend's boyfriends, deaths, marital affairs, divorce, icky confusing relationships, heart- wrenching relationships, fakes, bitches, and the ever-popular player! (Gotta love those.) OF COURSE the list goes on, silly!
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