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17/f
my boyfriend and i want to have sex but the only problem is, i think i'm too small down there. it took months before him fingering me with one finger felt okay. i told him to try two fingers the other day and he said he couldn't get them in and it hurt.
is sex going to be possible at all? i mean i know girls wayy younger than me have sex.
I was very small too. Just spend a couple of months with fingering. Also try fingering yourself to make yourself less tight. I know some girls tried using the ends of hairbrushes. Work from one finger to the next. Of course two fingers will hurt. But just bear with it until you feel you can't handle it anymore. My boyfriend and I worked on this for months until I was comfortable with having three fingers in. My first time didn't hurt either. It's better if you enjoy it and it's not all about making yourself less tight or it's going to be uncomfortable. If you enjoy it, it will be easier to slip a finger in. It also depends on how long you do it and how many times a week. I saw my boyfriend a lot over the summer so yeah. If he fingers you one week, then once the next .. you will end up being tight still. There won't be a big difference.
So just take your time, you don't need to hurry. And if it's not working, you might need to see your doctor and see how that goes.
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thanks so much =]
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