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Brandi_S
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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade. (link)
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Okay, so around the 12-15 age is the point where you really start deciding whether you'll be gay, straight, bi, etc. So right now, I think you might have a little thing for him, but you never know. I might just be that you wanna hang with him, be friends. I know the feeling. Getting him to talk to you more, hmm, does he have any interests on his Facebook/Myspace such as sports? You could talk to him about those sports. You could even have the same interests in girls. I'm a little unsure about how you can find out more about him, because I'm a girl and whatever, but I'll try my hardest to imagine your situation. Next time he gets in trouble and you're around, you could high five him and say something like, "Niiice man." He'll probably laugh and you guys could start a conversation. You could tell him something funny about a time you got in trouble, and believe me, he'll probably tell a lot about himself getting in trouble, but eventually you might become friends. Again, it's a little tough for me, but just try the things I said and you can drop anything else you need in my inbox. Good luck, I hope you guys become friends!
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