about

My name is Julia

things change. sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. that's how life is. i'm almost 16 and i make mistakes just like any other person. i'm far from perfect. i love to act, sing, dance and do anything involved with the arts. i really want to learn to play the guitar and i plan to learn. i play tennis but it's only to pass the time. i write poetry and lately i've been reading alot. i'm really goofy and i like to make people smile and i love to laugh. i don't trust that easily and i love even lighter. i don't believe that anyone is better than anyone. i've been going through a tough time lately and i've been confused about alot. i have my best friends and besides them i don't care what other people think. i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him. we can get through anything. i don't hate. sometimes love. and always smile. don't judge me before you get to know me. i'm loud and will make you laugh.

I also love to give and get advice. I believe that people should come together and help you to get by. But always remmeber, advice is help. You are the only one that can make a final desision. I would love to help you with anything as long as you respect me and I'll return the same respect.

advice

so im a sophmore and he's a senior.
in high school by the way :)
so, there is this guy, i REALLY like.
and i mean i think he's kinda into me, even though im ALOT younger and all. well only a year and a half, but anyways.
i want him to like me back becuase his x is trying to get back with him. hmmm.
and im not really the slutty type at all so im not going to go do anything like that.
i dunno.
what should i like say to him to make him like me, but be like playfull and flirty, but not like too flirty, you know?
wow that was like a novel :) hah

yayy! haha. I love these questions because I am also a sophomore with a senior boyfriend so I can totaly relate to the age. Age really doesn't matter to much. To your parents, it might, but to him it probably isn't. You really need to get to flirting with him. Guys love girls that will go after what they want. If you seem that he's into you, then stay the way you are. Don't change who you are just to beat out this other girl. Find out if he's still into her. Ask him if he likes anyone. While your asking him if he likes anyone, drop some hints. Make sure to show him that you're available. But that doesn't mean be slutty. Make sure to not seem like you're easy or that he can take advantage of you. Since he is a senior, he's ready for somethings that you may not.

When I first realized that I liked my boyfriend, I flirted alot. I made sure to not seem physco and I played it cool. When he was flirting back, I realized that he had feelings too. Soooo...we started to talk on the phone. This is when I began to let him know how I felt and I got the 411 on how he felt. After a few convos we began hanging out and after one date he asked me out. IT's been over three months and I'm totally in love with him.

SOOOOOOOOO...the lesson is play it cool. Flirt but don't seem easy or desperate. If it seems like he's liking you too, drop some hints. Eventually you should tell him how you feel.

I hope I could help!
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(Rating: 5) ohh my gosh i love you! that was like the best advice everrrr!!!!!
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