I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.
I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.
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Okay I move way too fast with guys. I don't think I'm a slut because I don't go out with that many guys I'm kind of picky. I'm in this relationship with this really great guy and we have been together for 9 now and on the 7th month we had sex on the 8th month we did four play (hand jobs,fingering etc)and oral. he doesn't have a problem but i do is that bad????? (link)
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You've already answered your own question. You've used two very telling phrases:
1. 'I move way too fast with guys.'
2. 'he doesn't have a problem, but I do.'
It really doesn't matter what your friends, advice columnists, or your boyfriend thinks about you. It matters what YOU think about you.
If you feel you are moving too quickly or are uncomfortable doing certain things, don't do them. You always have the right to stop doing things even once you've started.
You need to be looking at how you think and feel about these situations, decide what you want from a relationship, and figure out where your boundaries are.
I wish you the best.
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thank you I really appreciate your answer it actually helps and makes sense again i thank you
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