Hello everyone. My name here on advicenators is Solcito. It's a nickname my ex-girlfriend gave me that basically means little sun. That's the only personal information I really want to give out. In the short time that I have inhabited this planet I feel that I have experienced enough to make good judgment in most situations. I've fallen in love, had my heart broken, been mugged, made and lost a ton of friends, lived in three continents and become fluent in two different languages. I just feel that it's important to let you know why I think I'm certified to answer your questions. I'm also a guy, so I know how men think. I'm not saying that there aren't a fair share of guys who have questions about girls. I just generally see more females asking about their love lives here than guys. Hope you like my advice, and good luck to everyone with their personal issues.
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i think, but i just dont know, but i think im in love...see this guy i just dont really know a whole lot about him, but he is everywhere i look...i told him i liked him like two months ago and i think i scared him off,,im in the process for asking for a truce and getting to know each other...but i have tried to get over him and just when i think i do, he pops up again...i dont know why...but all of these quizzes saying are you in love they wont tell you,,they are mostly about when you know the guy really well...but i dont hardly talk to him like maybe once a week...if i am in love i dont know what it feels like..i just know that i have never felt like this about anyone ever before...he is with me everywhere at everytime...but i see more to him than when others just see a pretty face..i see that he is a good person and has a lot of poteintial in his life..i see that he cares and is a gentlemen...i see him not the cute guy that plays soccer,,you know..i just dont know what to do...so can you help???
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The way you put it was a little unclear, but let me try and make some sense of it. You see him everywhere? That makes it seem like you run into him a lot, but then when you say you see the good person he is, it makes me think that you two are just friends. I'll answer for both situations just to be sure.
If you see him a lot, but you aren't very close with him, I would say you aren't in love. You could have a very serious crush on this guy, but it's not love.
If he's a friend, it's completely plausible that you have fallen in love. If you told him how you felt before and he ran off, then maybe he's scared, not ready for a relationship, or unfortunately doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for him.
Either way, try to express your feelings for him. Talk to him, tease him, flirt with him. I know when a girl touches me, even grabbing my arm or something, my immediate reaction is to reciprocate the flirting (if I'm interested), or to get out (if I'm not). Kicking off a relationship between two people is the easiest part of the relationship if the two people are interested in each other. This is the easiest way to know how.
Now, if you want to know if you're in love. The way I feel about my girlfriend is that she's the person I waited for my entire life. That she filled some kind of emptiness inside me. I don't think she's perfect, but I accept her imperfections as part of the beautiful person she is. It's the feeling that nothing can go wrong as long as someone is at your side, and the constant fear of what will happen the day their not. That, I believe, is love. If that's how you feel, then good luck, but I see way too many people that confuse love with a huge crush.
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aww!! thats so sweet!! but thank you and it probably is cause i know himbut we just dont ever really comunnicate...but THANKS
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