Hi, I call myself Ignatz after Dan Herriman's character in the old "Krazy Kat" comic strip. I'm 44, father of 3, husband to one, crazy about music and books and food and movies and history and martial arts. I've had some wild and crazy times in my life, and I figure I might as well put in some of my perspective.
I promise not to talk down to anyone or make fun,and I promise not to BS anyone. If you're old enough to ask a frank question, you're old enough to get a frank answer. Oh, and if you ask me a question directly, please be patient. I'll get back to you as soon as I can. My life's a bit hectic. :-)
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ok well there is this boy that i really like hes 18 and im 14. I saw him on hi5 and i have talked to him through msn and he is really sweet the thing is i want to ask him to be my boyfriend i know he will say yes. But i dont want to go behind my parents back and im scared they may find out they are strict and i know my sister will be disappointed as we have a really close relationship. What shall i do??
thanks a lot
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One thing to keep in mind here. This fellow is legally an adult, and you're not. If your parents find out about your relationship, particularly if it gets to be physical, they can bring criminal charges against him. Corruption of a minor and statutory rape come to mind, even if you agree to everything the two of you do. Legally, you're not an adult, so you cannot legally consent to sexual activity. If he were younger it would be different from a legal standpoint, but he's not, so there is that possibility. We're looking at ten-year prison sentences.
Do you really want that kind of drama in your life? If your parents decide to press charges, they can make things really difficult for both of you. This is sort of worst-case scenario stuff, but it can happen.
I'd look for somebody younger, if I were you.
Hope this helps.
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firstly we aere good friends so we know each other for about 3 years and 4 years difference isn't big and also he wants me too and i don't want sex with him until i marry him so get lost!!!
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