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i'm 16/f. i really like this guy who's a year older than me and i know he likes me too. we hang out at school some and after my soccer games. we've only been on one date - out to dinner after a game. he's not a christian, and i'm a very strong and dedicated christian. he's into partying. i'm not at all. he's already hinted about having sex, i'm for sure saving myself until marriage. i really like him, but is this too much of a risk for myself? i might be able to help him change for the better, but i might end up being brought down. i'm really not sure of what to do right now. any advice would be helpful. please give me some honest answers. thank you so much!
The first person said please don't say he's a christian well i say im glad you put that. i, like you, am a girl of strong faith. i understand that it can be very hard whne you like a boy and he's not christian. I say do not date him. He may be able to change but in order for him to do that he has to want it like everyone else said. You shouldn't comprimise your standards for him and def. not compromise God for him. You know you shouldn't but the other part of you does. I am taking this from a strong girl's perspective in case you didnt notice :) haha. I had a bf once and he was christian but wasnt a true one. He swore and didnt go to church or have any connection with the Lord so i broke up with him.
Honestly the point of dating is finding someone you want to spend the rest or your life with and from what i read i get that you certainly dont want to end up with someone like him so what would you get from dating him? Except possibly a lot of problems. Stay friends but my one friend said this to me you cant help him change (if he wants to and tries) if your dating him because then it will just be about you. he wont actually care just pretend so you will date him.
I know it seems like there arent a lot of good christian guys out there but there are and God has one planned and waiting for you so dont worry about him or sacrifice yourself.
I have a bgf who's an amazing christian and because of his dedication to the Lord we have to wait until we can date but i believe in him and look up to him and think he's a great person. Someone your in a relationship with should be someone who understands you and has the same morals and beliefs as you. How else can you confide in him and ask him for advice and help? I know my bgf can help me with anything and that when he comforts me and gives me advice that its honest and good and we share a lot together. You need someone like that and I promise you will get a man like that just wait. I know waiting is painful and hard and my bgf is working for the Lord and therefore is unable to date me but i look up to him for that and his amazing relationship with the Lord and dedication to helping young teens/preteens lead a good, clean, christian life.
I know everything i am saying is very opinionated but its exactly that-my opinion. Hopefully I helped you and if you have more questions or need more help or just want to vent about something please talk to me because you sound like a great christian and i hope i helped you!!! :) Best of Luck and do what you know is right! ;)
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Hey I'm so glad i helped you and if u want send me a message straight to my inbox and maybe we can chat or something! You seem like a nice christian and you don't find many pple like that! ;)
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