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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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does anybody have any tips on how to become at peace with yourself and accept yourself? i know its not something someone can just tell you how to do but any piece of advice would help. thanks in advance.
Been there.
We all have. =]
Rather your talking about your personality or your looks, don`t try to change yourself to please other people. Maybe take a day off to just have a you-day? Go the mall & go shopping, go to the spa & get a facial/massage, go get your nails done, etc. I guarentee this -- it can make ANYONE feel better. =]
Try to begin every day by thinking of one thing that you really, really like about yourself rather it has to do with your hair, your ability to make others smile, your compassion for others, or that you make a great pot of chicken and dumplings. Haha, as you do this every day & discover things about yourself that you like, you`ll begin to feel a whole lot better about yourself, & your self esteem level will rise. & before you know it, you`ll find that you actually not only like yourself, but you love yourself too. Enlist the help of those that love you to help build your self confidence. Those that know you best and care for you are the ones that can help you see how special you truly are. Remember that someone who really knows you has most likely seen you at your worst & they didn`t leave, did they? These are the ones that can truely help you to build your self esteem.
Good luck!
(Rating: 5) thank you so much.