Hello everyone!
So I have always given advice to my friends and to anyone else who needs it. I realized that I do a pretty good job at giving advice to people. I have been through a lot of different things in my life (like most people) so I have learned a lot from my experiences. I give advice to people by being a middle person. If you have a question about a realtionship, I try to take a midde approach and I do not take sides (which I think is the best kind). I would love to help you with any questions you may have and if I don't know the answer or what advice to tell you, I will let you know. Don't be afraid to ask, I am here to help! :) :)
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Location: Orlando, Florida
Age: 21
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me and my Bf has like 4 years thogether ,From the first time I did sex I really didn't like it at all but I just did it because off him
But now is extra boring and I really never want to do it ,...he asked me what was going on and I couldn't answer him
It's not that I don't love him anymore ,but I don't want to have sex
I even sometimes cry because I don't want to do it and if I do it and did want to ,...I ussualy cry afterwards in the bathroom
Is this normal ?
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First off (as the person before said) you should never be pressured into sex. Sex may not be boring for you, you may have a little libido and that is why you do not find yourself wanting to have sex. It also may be that you are just not comfortable doing it with the person you are having that relationship with. Sometimes people that are not comfortable with sex at all have had a tramatizing experience sexual with someone. I am not saying that these are your problems, I am just listing different reasons why some people do not want to have sex. I definetly think that if you are crying because you do not want to have sex or even after you have sex; then you must stop until you understand why you have those feelings. I hope I have helped. Good luck! :)
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