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my boyfriend used to scratch my back and bite me a LOT during sex, i loved it!...but now, he barely does it. though when he does, it's extra hott, but i've tried telling him he should do it more, but i think in-the-moment, he forgets. plus i'm always on top so it makes it a bit hard to bite my neck. i'm VERY into vampiric sex, and he's into whatever i'm into basically. i just need to know a way to get him to do it more often. we are also out of ideas on new things to try. new positions, new ANYTHING. what all is there to do that makes for hott sex?

If your man used to do those things alot but has slowed down with it, maybe he was concerned that you would be bored with the same old thing. The scratching and biting does make for great sex but it doesn't call for it at all times. Maybe your man realizes that and likes to give you different feelings during each encounter you have.

Maybe by him not doing those same old things, he is actually giving you more. That is definitely makes for hotter sex. You can anticipate what he has in store for you next but since you do like for him to do those things, try this...

While you two are in the moment, whisper to him, really close in his ear, exactly what you want him to do to you. It will excite him and please you. If at any time you want him to touch you in a way and he is just missing all the cues, feel free to gently grab his hands and place them where you want them to be.

Another idea, since you like it wild, dont be on top so much, try standing. If you are flexible, standing can lead into many positions even a sitting or laying position and it's not as restrictive as being on top.

Always having open communications will always lead to great sex also. Hope some of these ideas help you and you find a way to enjoy every experience to the fullest.

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(Rating: 5) you've got a point, he probably doesn't want it to get boring doing the same thing, plus when he DOES do it, it feels a lot better then when he does it all the time because i'm not expecting it. Thanks lots!
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