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I love my boyfriend, and when he gets released, we are goin to get back together, but in those 2 years that he is gone is it bad if i meet someone at the time???cuz im not gonna want to be lonley the whole time and ive been crying like crazy that there taking him away. But do you think its bad that i get a new boyfriend in the meantime?

Well if you want to see other people while he's gone, not to say that I agree but I would definitely not tell him until he comes home. This will give you the time to see what you really want and also allow him peace of mind while he's away. Those times are hard enough.

I can't say that it's bad for you to not want to be lonely. No one does and that is something you should stress to your boyfriend and maybe he will understand that he can't be careless and get locked up and leave you like that.

It sounds harsh but trust me, that's all he has been saying to himself when he was pulled away from every one he loves. He will have to agree and he may even understand but be honest with him no matter what you chose to do.

Hope this helps.

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(Rating: 5) thank you, but he had an overdose, but hes alive, and he dosnt have to go no more, now hes acting like a preacher
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