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okay please dont judge me im begginnggg you..
but im 14 gonna be 15 in like 8 days.
but me n my boyfriend of 3 years have had sex b4.
and this last time we had it he didnt wear a condom.
i took a test and it showed up positive.
i took one about 3 weeks ago.
i took another one just last week and that one also said positive.
i have no i dea what to do.
my byfriend and i both want to keep it.
but have no idea how to tell our parents.
pleasee tell me something to doo.

Im not going to judge you as a person in either a good or bad light but one thing I can say is that this is the irresponsiblity that should scare you about having a child. Your not even mature enough to know how to handle this situation correctly. Thats why kids shouldnt have kids.

Children cant raise children nor should they have to. Your best years have yet to come and until you get around 17 or 18 you barely understand what's going on around you.

You may be a smart young girl, you may know how to show love and I'm sure your child will be a beautiful child but your role as a parent is to know how to care for the child, pay for the child, teach the child and at 15 you dont know anything yet.

One thing adults hate about being grown up is that you now are in complete control over your whole life. Theres no mommy to come and cook for you and clean for you. Theres no one to go to and tell them when you're hungry. Now it's on you and thats just being an adult and your saying with having a child at your age that you are willing to give up your entire childhood to prove that you can do something this major and it does scare me a bit as it should you.

I am 100% against abortion but stories like this make me understand how aborting one life can save another. Honestly if you have this child, you will miss out on anything wonderful and great you could have achieved by finishing school and becoming a phenomenal woman before being a mother which takes so much to accomplish just to be a good one.

I can go on forever with this so I will stop there and hope that you take this issued directly to your parents and dont hide it. Anything can happen to you or your baby and I want you to be safe and do the right thing.

Good luck to you....

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(Rating: 5) thankss.
but today i have a meeting with my parents and parenting teacher at school.
and im keeping the baby no matter what.
because i know dennys (father of baby) parents will help us even if mine wont.
thankss =D
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