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I am NOT THE USUAL. I am a woman with many ideas, thoughts and experiences to share. I am not the usual because even though I am a female, I am not into the whole cooking and fashion type things. I am more about interactions with people, be it your friends, family or special someone. I have maintained a very successful relationship for over a decade and every day we grow together.

I have to say that the main reason I looked into something like this is because my friends and family use me so much as their own personal therapist and thought that I should start my own advice column somewhere. So I am here to further my skills and see if I can be of help to others.

I have also set up other successful couples that still come to me with question after question on what to do in different instances. This is because every one can use some true to life, honest, non-biased, non sexist advice and I have that to offer.

Those in denial may not be ready to deal with my advice. I have helped others find their faults, admit love, and even apologize for wrong doings. Only the mature can handle what I have to offer.

Please don't come here thinking this woman will join the male-bashing because I won't. I love men and all they stand for but know that all men are not equal and I do dislike the scum but I am fair.

Please, use me up at your own will for as long as you have me because soon, I will only be found in your local paper or favorite magazine, with my own column.

Young and old, come visit, let's see what we can learn from eachother.

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I'm a girl and I'm almost 16 and I have never been in a relationship with a guy. I cant figure it out! I know myself that I'm easy to get along with, im friendly to everybody, and nobody dislikes me. All my friends say I'm so cute, but I know im not gorgeous. But I like my body/who I am... I am not self-concious. I have crushes on guys, and somtimes they find out about it, but they never ask me out! So I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed. Frankly, at my age, it's embarrasing! I've liked this guy for a couple of months now, so I told my friend to slip it to him, but she said that she thinks hes already in one of those "we like eachother, we know it, and were kinda dating" relationships with somone else. and she dosn't want me to get hurt and I dont want him to feel bad or akward. I feel like all the guys and girls in the world are already coupled up and I'm the odd one out!! What can I do? About the boy I like now? What about my situation in general? i welcome any advice, or just comfort. because this is really bringing me down.

You sound like many single adults. Sometimes it's not gonna be the one you choose but it doesn't mean it won't happen. If you are all those great things you say you are then you don't have to be out there searching for him. Plus many men like to do the chasing, once you let them see that you like them too much, they get big headed and want to see you sweat.

The way you describe yourself sounds like when you do find that right man he wont be turned away by your personality or your over-experience. No man likes a girl that has had too many boyfriends and too many kisses at 16.

It's something you will learn to respect, when a man doesn't take advantage of the fact that you like him. When it's your time, you will find the right type of guy that will like you for the right kinds of things. Don't rush, all good gets rewarded.

Stay a good girl and watch and see!!

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(Rating: 5) oh, thank you so much! your advice is helpful!
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