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My name is Juliathings change. sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. that's how life is. i'm almost 16 and i make mistakes just like any other person. i'm far from perfect. i love to act, sing, dance and do anything involved with the arts. i really want to learn to play the guitar and i plan to learn. i play tennis but it's only to pass the time. i write poetry and lately i've been reading alot. i'm really goofy and i like to make people smile and i love to laugh. i don't trust that easily and i love even lighter. i don't believe that anyone is better than anyone. i've been going through a tough time lately and i've been confused about alot. i have my best friends and besides them i don't care what other people think. i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him. we can get through anything. i don't hate. sometimes love. and always smile. don't judge me before you get to know me. i'm loud and will make you laugh.
I also love to give and get advice. I believe that people should come together and help you to get by. But always remmeber, advice is help. You are the only one that can make a final desision. I would love to help you with anything as long as you respect me and I'll return the same respect.
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Ok, here it is. I'm "Gothic" and the guy I like is a "Jock". I like him nad I'm pretty sure he likes me. Problem, I have no clue how it could get any farther than smiles and small chat because of the gossip and just people at our school. I swear, it'd be like WW3! Please give me your advise, Anything would be good at this point.
Thanks!
~VampireGirl818
The only surefire way that you can get pass this is looking into yourself. I personally hate lables and I feel that they separate people. You're question shows how in high school you will be shuned just for being friends with someone from a different clique. The only advice i can give you is to talk to him. If you both come to the same conclusion that you like eachother but are just scared of what other people think, then maybe you should stop caring what they think. It's obvi gonig to be tough on both of you, but if you both care about eachother as much as you say, then it shouldn't matter. This sounds cliche, and it's obvi going to be easier said then done, but hte best way to get through high school is to be an individual and not listen to the harsh words of others. You'll gain innerconfindece.
P.S. Watch a walk to remember. I think the idea of it might help!
Hope this works!
Keep me posted!
Signed,
cheapxphotography
(Rating: 5) Thatnks so much for the adice! I hate seeming helpless and I hate the whole label thing, really ignorant if my opinion really meaned anything. I will keep you posted if there is any improvements in the situation if you would like. I'm glad someone out there is willing on helping a total stranger! Thanks again!
~Sam