Hello everyone. My name here on advicenators is Solcito. It's a nickname my ex-girlfriend gave me that basically means little sun. That's the only personal information I really want to give out. In the short time that I have inhabited this planet I feel that I have experienced enough to make good judgment in most situations. I've fallen in love, had my heart broken, been mugged, made and lost a ton of friends, lived in three continents and become fluent in two different languages. I just feel that it's important to let you know why I think I'm certified to answer your questions. I'm also a guy, so I know how men think. I'm not saying that there aren't a fair share of guys who have questions about girls. I just generally see more females asking about their love lives here than guys. Hope you like my advice, and good luck to everyone with their personal issues.
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So a few hours my friend asked me out and I said yes.
Except he and my best friend have never gotten along. That's all fine and stuff, and even he doesn't care I'm friends with her.
But she's getting really pissed off. In those short few hours she's been getting a bit narky with me, and she actually said to me when he goes overseas she wants him to find another another girl to be 'her problem'
I think she also may be jealous I found a guy and she hasn't.
What the HELL do I say to her to get her to pull her head out of her ass? (link)
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The fact that he's willing to live with the situation and she isn't is a clear sign that he's more mature than she is. Tell her that you want to be with him, and if she is your friend she should accept that. Also listen to her advice though. If she thinks all these negative things about him, ask yourself why? Does she have a point? Is it you being stubborn or her? Give me more information on him and on her, and I can help you more. Just don't let your friend potentially ruin a relationship, but also don't let her words fall on deaf ears, every now and then people really will be looking out for your best interests.
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Rating: 5
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She doesn't like him because she kept pissing him off and he told her about it and she got really annoyed at him. Thank you for your advice :)
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