ok. so, my friends all hate my bf, and i thought it was nothing. but, the other night, he kept making extremely rude comments about me and other people. and, he apologized L8R and everything, but i dunno. since then i've totally seen him in a different light. i've been seeing him the way my friends have. and, i mean-- we were, well-- are rlly close, and we love each other. but i think he is an ass hole now. i dunno what to do! please help me.
thank you soo much!
I guess in the beginning of a realtionship, each person puts on sort of an act, of what the other person wants them to be, and the other partner willingly blinds themself and sees absolutely no flaws. now, once you get comfortable is a completely different story. you start seeing the person for what they really are, and its no surprise, nor does it make you a bad person, if you realize that you've made a mistake. personally, with so many guys out there, i'd move on, but i also believe in second chances. sometimes people do things that they don't realize can change our perspective on something completely, which is why you should talk to him. there's a possiblity that he felt attacked by your friends and went on the defensive. If you two are in love, you'll work it out.
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thank you! i was really hoping that there would be a way to work it out, and i'm starting to forget the stuff he said, because he was REALLY sorry afterward, but i'm not going to let him off the hook for it just yet. thanx again!
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