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i'm gonna start off by saying i'm NOT a whore
me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 9 months and he's fingered me once and we makeout alot thats about it ;; i kinda would like some more "exitement" and i give him handjobs all the time and was even thinking of giving him head (even tho i have NOO IDEA WHAT TO DO!) and maybe even sex.. i've given him alot of time and i dont wanna like push him but do you think i should say something to him.. if so what?

btw he's one year younger then me
do you think that has much of an affect on it?

Of course you should talk to him, start by simply asking his feelings about sex. Him being one year younger than you shouldn't matter, it all has to do with maturity. Anyways, like I was saying, start by asking his feelings about it and go from there. For example, a next question would be "How old do you see yourself losing your virginity?" So on and so forth. Don't be shy about it, and if you ARE shy about it, it probably means that YOU are not ready.

Oh, and F.Y.I.
Here's some advice on getting head, so you feel more comfortable:
When you give head, focus on the tip at first and the ring right under the head, slowly work your way down the shaft and bop your head up and down on it, it's not hard at all. DON'T TAKE IN THE WHOLE THING IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE IT. If it is too large, use your hand too, grip the bottom part of the shaft and let your hand follow in the up and down motion of your mouth. :] Make sure when you're bobbing up and down you use your tounge! Guys love that!

I hope I helped and let me know if you need to know anything else. :]

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