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she means so much to me and im the kinda guy who would wait forever. Id hate myself for not waiting for her. she has alot of bad rumors and a bad past, I dont care, i can see through them and i know i want to be with her. I know it may never happen but i need something to keep my hopes up for. I have no idea where to go from here plz help me......
hey you sound exactly like my ex boyfriend, he wants to wait forever but eventhough he wants that adn i know he could wait a long time , i just dont wanna be with him and probably this girl keeps you waiting cause she doesn't want to be mean and just say no, maybe she keeps you waiting becuase she wants you to think there's still a chance, and until you just get tired of waiting and just let her go and look for someone else so this way shes not going to be the bad guy , do you get it ? i tell you this because im kinda doing the same thing so i can understand what she might me thinking, i mean when your sure you wanna be with someone you have no doubts, if you are doubting about it and then you are with that person its veeery probable that person will have doubts again cause she wasnt's sure since the beginning. so my advice its to really look for someone else, cause wouldn't you feel unconfortable if shes with you eventhough you know she kept you waiting a long time (knowing that she kept you waiting cause she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with you?) a part of you i think will feel like "oh meaybe she doesn't like me enough to be sure enough to be with me" or at least i think i would think this way , cause if someones not sure to be with you and its doubting about it alot,, when you finally get what you want its very probable you will feel unconfortable with the situation. think about it and tell me what you think :) good luck with everything and believe me i know taht its hard to just accept a "just look for someone else"advice cause im in the same situation but you should also think that theres someone who really deserves your patience on waiting and things like this , someone who really likes you and doesn't doubt if she wants to be with you :)
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Thank you, it hurts to think this way, but thanks
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