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Hello! My name is Shelby. I'm 13, about to turn 14 in April, and I have the greatest boyfriend anyone could ask for! His name is Landon, and he's sweet, funny, and loves me with all his heart. I love to hang out with friends, go to school, surprisingly, and to just relax and have fun. I'm on the computer most of the time. I love being on Facebook. I love to listen to music. But the one thing I love the most is Landon :D. If you have ANY questions, you can ask me and I will answer the best that I can.


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hey i think i have a crush on a girl my age on my rec softball team. we keep making eye contact with each other but we never talk. like i like the idea of me liking her but i dont like the idea of me kissing her. so i basically like the idea of her doing anything sexual with others..except when as its with me.

GOD ITS COMPLICATED.

so i want to be friends with her but its really awkward to be near her because of 2 reasons. 1) the eye contact thing makes me feel self-conscious around her and 2) her eyes are this deep deep hazel-green-blue mix and its hard for me to look away from her eyes. i knoww the 2nd reason is kind of BS but the first reason is true.

and sometimes i feel like she's following me, like ill sit on a place on the bench first and then she'll sit next to me. or when we do throwing drills ill pass/catch with my partner and then she'll lead her partner next to my group. anyone would think this is purely accidental but we've been sitting next to each other and doing drills next to each other for FIVE GAMES IN A ROW because of her! (well once it was because of me but thats because i wasnt paying attention lol)

shes a cool person and when we talk she usually starts it because this entire situation is too awkward for me for words.

um so ~in conclusionn~...

LOL i dont know what the hell im asking. this crush & the awkwardness is driving me insane and i just need advice..guidance..understanding words of wisdom..plz and ty

Well, just because you have a crush on a girl, dosent nessicarely make you gay or bi. You could be a lesbian, or you could just be going through a phase.

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(Rating: 1) gay and lesbian mean the same thing.


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