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I'm 15f and I feel like everyone hates me. My brother came home today and said that my friends or my ex-friends wanted him to hang out with them. They never call me and they think I'm annoying. What is up with that? I'm not a bad person. why do people choose other people over me? All the time, too. It's so confusing. I just want people to like me for me. i don't want to be like my brother. He's all emo. I'm just normal and fun. He's just something else. (link)
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omg! I understand what you're going through, because I am going through the same thing. I'm the same age as you too! I even feel suicidal because of it sometimes. :(
But your problem could be because you've outgrown your current friends. You should probably just forget them and go look for some people who will like you for the great person you are.
About people thinking you're annoying- maybe you are? Maybe you talk too much? maybe you're SUPERSUPER hyper all the time and never just stop and be normal (not saying you are, i just don't know you)
maybe you're always saying negative remarks and complaining... Maybe you always make things into a huge catastrophe when really it's just something small... there are a lot of personality traits that could make you an annoyance to some people but a great friend for others...
The best thing to do is to take a good look at yourself and maybe compare the way you are to someone you admire- someone you aspire to be like. You'll probably discover that there are some things about you that make you seem annoying.
good luck with this and just know that things will change and you will find the right friends.
:)
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OMG!! i really am just like you! about the humour dragging on for the whole day AND the negativity! that describes me perfectly.
it's so awful so i really do understand what it's like to have everyone hate you. :(
myspace.com/unendingnight
u should add me so we can be negative together lol
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Well, I think it's because I'm negative plus I drag things on. Like If I think something is funni then I'll say it all day over and over again. Now I don't talk at all in front of them. Just small talk. These people arent my friends they're just people that I would like to be friends with and they hate me. They say I'm annoying behind my back they're like 4 or 5 years older than me, though. But whatever life goes on. thanks for the advice.
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