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Alright.. wow.
well i was talking to my bf and we've been together almost 4 years, and we havent gotten very intimate. not past 1st base, i've tried to go down on him several times and he just never lets me.
well, today we were asking eachother random questions, and I asked him what his size was.
well, it took a really long time to get out of him, but its because hes only 2 inches.

Well, that was akward.
What i want to know, is how much does it actually take to please a woman?
hes really self concious now, and i need like, statistics to tell him, something that will make him feel better :/
please guys!

i don't think size matters in pleasing a woman. It really depends on SKILL. You know even a larger size may not pleasure you. They have to know some knowledge as to what they are doing. When girls say size matters and bigger is what they want. Anything beyond .. i don't know. 8 or 9 inches could be really painful.

When your boyfriend becomes hard, he's probably twice that size. Since you have been together for so many years.. Maybe you should start to try to become intimate.. Let him know that his size is okay. If you don't orgasm during sex, it's not uncommon.. most women can't. I really think it depends on skill. Practice and tell him what you like. I never thought I would orgasm off of penetration alone. Usually I don't. So don't give him statistics. He doesn't need to hear it. But most men are not large, it's just bragging for a higher confidence, you know? Large isn't always that great. Small and average can be good enough.

You just have to try things and talk to him. Let him know you're going to be with him because after that, he's probably going to constantly think about the possibility that you're going to leave him and tell people.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. and btw it was 2 inches hard :/ im not sure what he is soft so yeah


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