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Q: Hi, i'm really trying to lose weight and i want to go to the gym, but i think i'm too fat to go. I know it sounds ridiculus but i went today to check it out and everybody there was lyk twig skinny :s
I also need a way that isnt obvious to my friend to not eat so much...if you know what i mean, its just that she is quite fat too.
I don't know how to explain it but if people know im on a diet they could make fun of me because im admitting im fat...
Sorry about the essay but im really stressd over this
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tell your friend that you ares starting a new diet exercise thing and ask if she wants to do it with you. also when you go to the gym and work out the first thing that happens is you will build muscle which makes you weigh more but it will start to form your shape so you will have to commit to going to the gym for a while because after your muscle is getting bigger, you will then start to lose fat. dont be intimidated about the other people in the gym, they started out like you!

thankz...but i cant afford to get any bigger ...i look horrid.
Thank you for the motivation though
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Most people call me K. thats all lol. i grew up very fast as a kid with many challenging problems with family life and friends. i was the advice columnists in our school newspaper and i think i give very good advice. i have a lot of family and have been through many different situations with each of the..boys and girls..i have even helped parents with some of their problems. im very interested in sports, i love them all! I love fashion and dressing up to go have a good time. I have had my own relationship problems as well as helping with family members problems and friends as well. I think i am very qualified to help people with advice and i will do my very best to not only answer your questions to the best of my ability but for what is right. i am a very Christian person and look to god in most things i do. i wish all of you luck in your advice seeking process! Much Love!

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