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Q: im having some boy troubles here :] ok so i am 15/f and im in tenth grade, just to let you know. yeah so i have asked a bunch of my friends about this, and they're all giving me their opinions, but id like some more pleassse. ok so its kind of long, and i will love you if you read it and help meeee:

i dont know how to start this off but here it goes. as i told you, im in tenth grade, and theres this really cute boy in ninth grade. we have two classes together but its totally awkward. i really like him and im pretty sure he likes me, this is what i need your opinion on. he's given me some signs, but im not too good with this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing, but this kid is so cute. ok well we have lunch together, which is lunch and study hall, and we have band class together. he also sits one seat away from me in study hall, but i cant really talk to him there. so after lunch one day, i was standing with my friend in the hallway waiting for another friend, and he was walking down the hallway with two of his friends, and they shoved him into me. i know its corny, but hey it might mean something. and everytime i pass his table at lunch, all of his friends just stare at me. ive talked to him a little, but im so scared to because i dont want to get hurt or something. but heres the catch, his best friend thinks i like him. i actually dont, i mean hes cute, and we flirt, but its just not there really. and now i think the kid i like thinks i like his best friend? make sense? i hope so. and so yeah, do you guys think there might be a chance he likes me? and do you know anything i could really talk about with him, like to start a conversation? i dont really know, ive thought he was really cute ever since band camp, and im not sure what to do. ive never had a real boyfriend, unless you count a silly elementary one. but ive never been kissed and stuff. i dont think he has either so if neither of us are experienced isnt that bad?

it would honestly help me so much because my school dance is coming up and if he doesnt ask me im seriously gonna ask him, its so not like me, but i want to really bad. any ideas to help me with that too? haha thanks so much if you read this and actually replied.
Hey..:]]
And just to start out;,.
He prolly likes you.
And just because someone likes you doesnt mean you have to like him back.
[Please dont be one of those people that always listens to what other people say.Its always the same stuff.And it usually NEVER works.]
Anyways,,
If he's never looking at you and always hiding from you[meaning hes the shy-type-a-guy]it prolly shows he likes you.[this seems like the type of guy youre talking about.]
Or if he's always trying to find a reason to talk to you or always sits with you and stuff[meaning hes the outgoing-type-a-guy.]it prolly means he likes you.[the other type sounds like this freshman.]
And yes,he is CUTE,but is he smart[and I dont mean in the school way.]?.Does he know how to treat a girl.He might be sweet.Get to know him first.It ALWAYS makes it easier to be later his girlfriend.Talk to him alot.Sit at his lunch table with a couple of your friends[whatever you do,,dont let them leave you there by yourself..you dont want him to think you are totally into him if youre not.]..and that would totally be cool.
So hurry up and talk.Then be like "hey,I was wondering if you wanted to go to the dance with me.It would be really cool."
He'll prolly say yes,but if not..[punch himm,,[haha..Im totally kidding.Lol.]]ask him why.Dont be too anxicious.
Haha..Hope ALL this info helps.:]]
[Sorry its soooo long.]

thankss sooo much :]

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andasmile
Hey..:]]
Im Victoria Lejean Wood.Yess,,the middle name is kinda lame..but at least its not like everyone elses.
I wish to help you with things..I hope I give good advice.
I love cows.And Myspace rocks my world.
I love my school and all the people there.My church is also amazing.All the people there are so encouraging.Chicago is aweeesome..Ilovethecity.
I really like this guy.He doesnt even know it though.He would never talk to me again if he knew.Maybe its better he didnt.
Anyways..
Im in 8thgrade.:]]
And Im in a family of 8 kids.
and Feel free to ask me ANYTHING.Ill answer my BEST.:]]

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