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heya im sabrina..im 17...if i had to describe myself i simply would put it in these few words
*honest
*caring
*reliable
*helpfull
*happy
*crazy
*thoughtfull.
i am a very caring person an am willing to help anyone. i belive in second chances..but nothing more. i like to think people can trust me an find me easy to talk to as im a great listener.
i have have experienced alot of good and bad stuff in my life. and im working day by day to get over the bad. its what makes me stronger an i have learnt from alot of my wrongs. i belive in helpin others i live to make people happy. i try my best at most things but evan i can be wrong.i have amazing friends. and i wouldnt be here without them. talking gettin advice helps so much. i just want to give that back to people who need it. xxx

advice

I used to like this kid. like a lot. we kissed all the time and stuff like that, talked on the phone all the time. and somewhere in between all of that, he started talking to my best friend, and fell for her. so basically, he never calls me anymore, and I don't see him often anyway because he kinda far away. So now I'm starting to have doubts if he even did like me. Well about two weeks ago, the last time I saw him, he kissed me-- I kissed back. He told another best friend of mine that I kissed him first, I pulled his face in, all this stuff. He tried to put blame on me on a scenario that didn't even need "blame"... I was furious. My friends all told me "forget about him, hes a dick, he likes your best friend" all this shit. I agree with them, and I haven't really talked to him; he hasn't really called me (only twice since then) and I only called him once. I've been trying to tell myself hes such a dick, and for a little bit it worked. But now I'm realizing that I miss him. A lot. I miss kissing him, I miss him holding me, and I feel pathetic. He disrespected me and I feel used, but a part of me still wants him so bad. I can't talk to him about what he said either because the friend that told me said she wasn't supposed to tell me. What should I do? If I do see him, the next time is going to be the end of next month. Any advice?

It sounds to me asthough you have some good friends there. being honest with you about this an telling you. hold on to them.

this guy clearly dont know what he wants.
you proberly do mean something to him. from what you said about how close you were before with him.

it was wrong of him to start putting "blame" on you for something that he clearly had no problem with taking part in..remember it takes 2.

you`ll miss him. because of how close you were.

but think about it if he likes one of your friends whats to stop him being like that with her?

to me it sounds like you deserve alot better. maybe stay friends with him. but dont go any further unless you no its you he likes. an his not gana go behind your back telling your friends its all you.

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