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Hey everyone. I'm 17,straight,in a relationship and a senior. I love to play the guitar and just have fun in general.Plus I love music. it's like my life. I also plan to major in psychology in college I'm great with relationship questions from both guys and girls and my opinions aren't exactly your average guy opinions (I love to listen.Chazam:)). If you have questions about anything relationship wise feel free to ask cause i love answering them and if you have any other questions I'll do my best to answer them. other than that I play tennis, I ski and play soccer. and thats really it so ask away
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Ok.....me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half. I try so hard to be the "perfect" girlfriend or whatever...but sometimes I think he doesn't even realize or appreciate anything I do. What should I do?
Well there is definetly the possibility that he doesn't realize you want to know that he notices. as guys were really not the greatest at reading emotions and feelings and responding to them in the way that we should. the male and the female way of thinking is very different. it's been shown that while women usually connect alot of issues to emotions men see things as finite. We see our girlfriends being amazing girlfriends too us and we think"wow she's an amazing girlfriend" unfortunetly most of the time thats as far as it goes. we don't get to the point where we realize we should aknowledge you for it. So I really wouldn't worry about it.theres no doubt in my mind that your boyfriend loves you alot and completely appreciates the things you do but doesn't realize that you want to hear him say it or show it. I hope this helps:)
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Thanks......that was great advice!!
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