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Know i know this is sounds wierd but i think that the guy that i like, likes my BFF. He always laughs at her jokes and they talk alot. At lunch he tends to steer twords her. But he also doesn't tell her his secrets. But he tells me his deepest secrets, but he won't tell me who he likes.
But i feel like "unconfident" around him, when him and her are around eachother. Like an example is at lunch i can't really talk to him because i have this mind set that he likes her.

I guess what i want to know is if i THINK he likes her, should i flirt more and make him like me? Or.... Leave him alone and let her "have" him? Or... What else is there???

P.S. Did i forget to mention she ALSO LIKES HIM!!! Omg. help if you can PLEASE!!!

First off, let your friend know that you like him too.If i was you two you either vow that you WONT go out with him or you either vow that the other one WOULD be happy if he did like one of you
Boys can get in the way of friendships and i think you should talk to her about that and she dosnt want her or yourself to get hurt.
Well, I'm not a braniac but if he is telling you secrets he could see you more as a trusted friend but from what you told me...there is a chance that HE could like her.
Don't tell him how you feel because it isnt fair on your friend.I'd just talk to him & ask him who he likes you know how we are! we badger people but just ask him.
You MUST tell your friend how you feel and that noone should get hurt and both of you make a descion on if one of you were to go out with him ot not.I'd presonally not do that because if my friend went out with him i wouldn't be happy.I wouldnt be angry at her, but i might become jelous and harsh so i'd talk to her about that and just ask him who he likes....
Don't feel unconfident....because you dont know how he feels just be yourself and be HAPPY because THERE IS A CHANCE HE COULD LIKE YOU!!
Please rememeber he isn't owned by YOU or your FRIEND.So don't get all possessive and jealous..
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(Rating: 5) Thanks. And um. I told her that i like him also and she and i agreed that we would not get jelous IF he does go out w/ one of us. But i am scared because i get jelous really easily, i don't try to and i keep telling my self that i am happy for whoever made me jelous. But i keep on getting jelous! any ideas? i am scared that if he goes out with her, even though i promised not to, i might get jelous. And let's just say when i am jealous, it's not pretty....
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