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hello, my name is nina. i am 21yrs old, and i have lots to share with you. i have been through most of what people ask here, and what i haven't been through, i have enough compassion and understanding to help you with your problems. i love to volenteer, and i love to help people. my modo is "love finds those who take their time in searching." i also am a believer in God, but i do have a balence, i am very open and understanding to all situations, and i never judge. if you would like to get to know me more, just email me. enjoy life, forgive others, and keep smiling.
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I'm 15, going to be a sophmore in high school. I'm already engaged to an 18 year old man who's in the army right now. We planned on getting married when I was 17, the beginning of my senior year. If my parent's don't sign me over however we're going to elope on my 18th birthday. I'm going to move to Colorado and attend college there and live with him. He's also going to pay for me to go to college. My question I guess is basically just looking for an opinion on if you guys think this is an ok thing to do. I know I love him and I know I'm young but this is what I want. Everyone keeps telling me I'm stupid though.
i definitly do not think you are stupid. there is nothing stupid about being inlove. and you are never to young to fall inlove. however, you shouldn't rush anything. marraige is a big thing. and all though you two are head over heels for eachother right now, you both have a lot of learning and changing to do. you guys can still be together, and be inlove, but you don't have to get married to do it. take your time. "love is patient, love is kind. follow your heart, but respect your mind." is an old saying. it means that if you two are meant to be, then my advice to you is not to get married until you have your life together. finish highschool, go to collage, do what you would have done before you met him. and don't move out of state for him just yet, wait till you start your own life, and let him start his. let him go to colorado for school, and if you two can work it through the distance, then you will have a better idea if this is right for you. but if things end up not working out, just remember, that at least you didn't get married, and someone else is out there meant to be with you as well. so follow your heart, but respect your mind, and never do something that will break your parent's heart, becuase they more important. but always trust yourself, and remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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thank you. we already know what the distance thing is like since he's in the army, and i dont want to rush anything, but the thing is that in the army they dont take you seriously unless you have the papers, and i hate that. I know i don't HAVE to rush anything, I just want to. But thanks!
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