Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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Things have happened to me and everything sucks. People hate me and I feel like everyone else fits in and I really lack that. I don't know anymore but I've never been happy and its starting to make me want to end everything and not have to deal with guys that don't like me and girls that hate me and yeah guys that hate me. I really need help I think. (link)
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Hey!
In our life, we go through weeks or months sometimes even years where we feel like life is just this evil thing where everyone on the other side of the glass window is living this awesome life, but all we get is this horrible unfair treatment. The only way to get out of the funk is to push past it and not let every little thing bother you.
First, I want to talk about how you said you dont fit in. there are a lot of different places in your life where you wont fit in with everyone else, but sometimes people go out of their way to be their own person, and end up scaring people who want to befriend them, away. So heres my suggestion, now in no way am I telling you to change yourself in order to be liked. But I think that you should just try and fit in. smile and be nice to everyone. Think about what you do to make people hate you, and if you can figure it out, try and tone it down a bit. DOnt change yourself, just try and do it alittle less obviously.
There will always be people who hate you in your life. What you have to do is push past them and find people who do like you. If you're being bullied then its different, but if they just hate you, who cares they're one person, you're this amazing person who even I can tell not having ever met you, but these people are mean to you and dont like you, but they dont see who you are deep down inside. You dont need them in your life. So go out and find some one you do need.
I think you should focus your intrests on things like clubs and get to know more people with the same intrests as you. You'll make mroe friends.
Look I dont know what you mean by "starting to make me want to end everything" so I'm not going to assume. but if you mean what I first thought you meant, then look, you're this caring person who will be missed and you cant just let this stuff drop. you are important, and maybe you're not fitting in, but one day you will find these amazing people and you will touch their lives. You were put here to do something with your life and beating the odds is so much better than giving up. Life can be hell. but if you ever and I mean EVER need someone to talk to let me know. Because you're this special person who is in a funk that you will get out of, you just need alittle help. If you need help, then seek it, but dont end everything. Because you'll regret it. lifes tough but you can do it you're strong, and with others help this will get better I promise okay?
I hope I helpped and good luck. Remember I'm there for you.
Love ya,
angie91
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Thank you soo much. I just don't feel like friends or a boyfriend will come into my life and care that I'm alive. Because nobody cares. My cousin is 16 and she has friends and a boyfriend and they really care about her. She touched their lives but I'm not going to because people will never care. But thanks for the advice. i'll try to stop spreading rumors as much.
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