|
|
I've been friends with my best friend for basically as long as i can remember. I dont know if its just me, but lately it seems like shes always trying to make me jealous and out do me. Like tonight, I went to the movies with one of my other friends, and put up an away message on aim saying " movies with myfriendsname cell it=]" and then left. And when i got home, her away message was "movies with cutie. then home with cutie" (which is one of her other really good friends) And she just does little things like that. And it REALLY gets on my nerves. How can i like get over this and not let it bother me? We dont have the same friends(we're different ages, different friends) so its not like we can all just do stuff together so she doesnt try to make me jealous. I dont know what to do.
Well, I can totally relate to this. I have been in this situation before. The only thing that I can tell you is this, dear.
People gain new friends all the time and as much as we all don't like it, we DO pick favorites. At any point in time, we all do it. Its not that we mean to, but it happens. There are people who just... hang out with you more or are closer to you at a given time and it just... makes the relationship stonger.
I don't think she is trying to make you jealous but maybe she just relates with that "cutie" girl better atm and is a little closer to her. It happenes. It dosen't mean that she loves you any less... it just how people are at times.
Im the meantime, I would talk to your friend about it, if it really bothers you, and maybe she will try to make it better. Who knows. It would prolly also help if you and her had a few "mutual" friends. I know that helps me when I can hang out with more than one person at a time. Just a thought.
Best of luck hun, and hope you feel better! Loves! *Smiles*.
[view]
(Rating: 5)
thanks so much=] your a sweetheart!
| |
