Gender: Female
Location: Leicestershire, England, UK
Occupation: student
Age: 22
Member Since: July 22, 2007
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Last Update: September 9, 2009
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I'm a 16 year old female and I have been dating a boy for about 3 years, we are very close and really care about each other. We are also about to move in together in a few months. But i also have this other guy he was my first love and i dont think we ever truly let go of one another. The other weekend he and i went camping with some friends and we got alot closer it feels as though we rekindle that old flame. I love my current boyfriend alot and dont want to lose or hurt him but when im with this other boy i feel that same love for him.
What should i do?
Someone please help.
Signed,
Confused Heart (link)
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This is a complicated situation to be in, but which one do you care most about?
if you think you have something special with your current boyfriend, then is actually worth throwing it away?
if i was in your place, i would try to find out if your old boyfriend really does care for you or not? because you don't want to end up in a situation where you leave your current boyfriend for the old one, and the old one doesn't want you back, and you'll be on your own.
-but if you are close with your current boyfriend try discussing your feeling with him, you do need to be honest, but before you do it would be a good idea to think with both your heart and mind.
if this doesnt help, just make a list of good and bad qualities of each guy, and see if that can help you decide.
i hope this helps but just think who will you be most happy with you, there is a saying 'you should love the one who loves you, not the one you love'. good luck though, this is a tough question to answer, but i wish you all the best.
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thank you very much.
i might just try that =]
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