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the names missy, i'm 16 years old growing up in chicago. i hate when people judge me, so dont. if you steal my picture, i'll fucking hunt you down (; anyways; i'm really great at giving advice. probably because i've been through a lot of shit in my life. from the time i could remember until one year ago, my parents were both huge alchoholics. i basically taught myself everything. dont write sympathy notes to my inbox either, because i hate that. i'm always really nice to everyone and i dont judge people the first time i see them. i find that wrong to the furthest point! every person has their own story, so i choose to listen (: my boyfriend of two years is darren. darren is my life. honestly, he completes me in so many ways. he's the only person that makes me completely happy. i truly love him. so ask me as many questions as you need, i'm not a fake bitch and i dont give you phony answers. have a nice day (:

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15/f. Pardon me if this is long. But it's ruining my life.

Last year I was a really lonely and pathetic teenager. At 14, I had no friends I could trust, and all that revolved around my mind, was school and homework. And then I stumbled upon an online forum. There, I made lots of friends and became so much happier. I had gotten more social through the ways of the internet chatroom. The people there all shared my interests and were so nice and sweet to me. It was almost like a dream. I actually thought I was fitting in somewhere. Ever since, to this day, it has become an addiction. Particularly because of one guy. Let's call him "Vibrator". Vibrator is 3 and a half years older than me. That makes him...(well, you do the math, if I'm 15 1/2) And he lives in North America (as I do) He shares my music interests, hobbies and other things such as this. When he talks to me (and we have been talking online on MSN and AIM for a course of one year) he is always so sweet and sugary and amazing. I feel like I've known Vibrator forever. He always compliments me and tells me I'm pretty. It makes me feel amazing. But, I'm a bit paranoid, because I've only seen like ONE picture of him! And I'm always sending him pictures o.o And everything we discuss....personally..is always about me. So I feel as if...he wants to know about me, but never tells me about himself. Is he hiding something? I don't know what to do ! I'm so emotionally attached to him. And he flirts with other girls too, and then tells me later that he has no "sexual" feelings for me. He tells me that we should meet and he tells me he wants to. He manipulates and plays with my feelings. He really is ruining my life. I hate him, but at the same time I like him a lot. I don't know what to do. I really want to meet him. But I'm so unsure. It's becoming an obsession talking to him. And he gets mad very frequently...when he does, I cry. He upsets me a lot. But then he apologizes and plays with me...like that. I cry over him. I can't tell this to anyone. Not even my best friend, because I'm too embarrassed to admit that I like someone online.

What should I do? Please. :( Any piece of advice would be helpful.

You should honestly, stop talking to Vibrator.
You've pretty much answered your own Q in way,
he's ruining your life, so obviously you should
stop talking to him. Seriously, you need to
realize that he's just playing games with you.
If he hasnt sent you over two pictures, he's
not who he says he is! He probably just got the
picture off photobucket. And this is becomming
more of an obsession than an online "crush."

Get out more & spend more time off the computer.
Try finding real friends because once you do,
you'll become really happy & you wont have to
worry about Vibrator. =)

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