13/f.Recently, I've been classified as a prep. Nothing else just a prep.And to tell you the truth, I don't like it. I like to watch Anime, I love flippy hair, I don't know. That's not prep at all. I tried talking to my friend's about it, and they think it's a sign of becoming emo. And I have absolutly no problem with that, but I'm afraid it might change my relationship's with alot of people. But then I suppose they're not your true friends, correct? Also, this has become to be a bit of a problem because since they guy I like is in fact emo, my friend's think that he's changing me. But it's not him changing me. I'm changing myself. I'm not doing it on purpose, my tastes are just changing. My 8th grade school year is more than likely going to turn out a peice of crap because I'm too busy trying to find my self in the middle of school work, boys, friends, and my family.
Is there any advice you have that might solve my problem? I'm so stuck and I've been crying alot lately because I'm so worried. Is something wrong with me or what?
Anything's greatly appreciated, seriously.
Thank you so much in advanceā„
you should live as much as possible while you're still in middle school and not be so caught up in labels. kids in middle school seem extremely naive when you compare them to stupid high school kids. in my humble opinion high school kids seem to have grown up too much and are intimidating, but that's probably just me.
if i could go back and do it over again, i'd get most of my firsts over with in middle school, but this is probably horrible advice.
but um, labels aren't nearly as big of a deal as you're making them. it isn't about finding yourself, it's about living and just becoming more and more like yourself. yknow what i'm saying?
have fun and good luck
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thanks much
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