DancinCutie08's advice column

My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.

My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships

I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age

and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

Ok well my dog Adrian died and its really hard for me and i keep thinking about her....And i WONT ever forget her though....And i like loved her and i still do and shes buried in the backyard so i can see her...And it just makes it harder....Please Help...

I know exactly what you are going through.. it happened to me about 2 years ago. I posted pictures of him all over my room.. it helped alot when i cried to look at him.. i also kept little things like his collar and tags. it made me feel like he was still with me. it just takes time.. it took me a couple of monthes before i stopped crying.

What helped though was getting a new dog.. we got a puppy about 2 monthes later.. she was never to replace him but fill that cap in are hearts.. we new rescueing another dog from a shelter like we did to him would make him happy... haha this is making me tear up just typing this

but it made it easier to compare her habbits to hims and stuff instead of just talking about him alone.

nothing will ever replace her to you but trying to move on is the first step.. and getting another dog was right for us and we show as much love to her as we did our last one

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(Rating: 5) Sorry for rating a 2 im changing it

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