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Q: I'm in a summer intership in Iowa and I had this friend from Italy which I was close to at the last week of her intership.
Problem is that she like a guy that was hitting on me. I always ignored him,he would tell me he loves me etc. But my friend didnt ignore him,she got to REALLY like him. My best friend and I saw bad intentions in that guy's eyes,but we didnt get involved in it. At the end of the program he hits on both of us at the same time so I decide to talk to her even if I didnt know her. She got crushed and now she is back in Italy. Apparently the guy sends her love letters,tells her he missed her and loves her while he;s been sleeping eigth different girls in here and he is hitting on me again.
She just found out about this...and she just told me she believed in him and they had sex...she is extremely hurt and wants to pay back.
I dont know what to tell her,cause I believe she does need to do something,the guy is an()*)&&^&^/
Thing is I dont know if I should take "justice" in my hands since im still in the intership.
Like do exactly what she did to her excluding the sex.
Any advice on what should I do?
or how to take revenge?
I will highly appreciate it
I highly advise that you don't do anything drastic to try and get revenge. Vengence is hardly anything that is worth your time. I truly believe he'll get what he's got coming to him in time. I think the best thing you can do is help you friend get over this guy and tip off these girls that he's been messing around with.

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Hey! My name is Cassie and I'm 21 years old. I live in the suburbs of Chicago where I like to spend time with the important people in my life, play softball, and volunteer in my community. I am currently a junior in college. Throughout my years of schooling I have been involved in activities such as: volleyball, basketball, softball, theater, poms, choir, band, foreign language club, science team, and academic achievement programs. I am a Secondary Lutheran Education Biology Major with a minor in Spanish Education.

I enjoy getting to know people. I am generally an optimist and choose to believe that every individual has something to offer. Please feel free to ask me anything. I promise that I will consider every question thoughtfully and give you the best possible advice.

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