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Hey now i just moved back to connecticut form florida and i am really nervous to get back to school i mean last year alot of kids called me names like gay or fag and belive me i am not gay i have had three girlfreinds. buut how could i get people to stop saying this kind of stuff cause its not helping my self confidence and it just makes me more nervous and paranoid about everyone around me

First Of All, Most important, don't care about what other people say. If you do, everything will become confusing and hard for you. And you don't need that.

Everyone at least gets called something once a day, and if we start caring about it, everything will just crumble up.


People call other people names for their entertainment, it doesn't mean that you "are" gay or a fag. Your neither, but kids these days dont understand how it feels.

Just ignore it, you can't change what they think.You can only change what youu think. Don't make yourself believe that their right. It takes Confidence to beat what they say.


I hope i helped!


-Speakfreely

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(Rating: 5) hey thankz alot for the help


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