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Q: Okay, well thing is that me and this freind are such good freind and we had a clash last summer. and wasn't very good. thing is that i cna't seem tell her my feelings. she seeem to hatd when i act mad or upset and yet jelouse and i am not a jelouse person.. she dosn't understand that my feelings are still hurting. sometimes i don't know she like me anymore or still like me as good freind. i know this maybe sound jelouse but she didn't even put me her top friends list on facebook or mysapce we been close and buddies and she treat her roomate like she treated her the best in her life. i always been good friend. and yet she was brainwash about stuff people tell her and she listens. and thought she care about me and yet she don't act like it. how can i tell her with out my saying sound mad and upset? i mean my feelings are still hurt. i know i need get over it i can't i need to fix it.. so I feel better.. we both feel better talking toeacher again and everything.
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Well, you're probably not going to like what I'm about to say but...
I wonder if your friend is a little tired of waiting for you to forgive her. I don't know what she did to you, but I wonder if it matters. I mean, you said that this clash happened last summer? That's a whole year ago. If you haven't been able to forgive her by now I wonder if her hesitation around you has to do with a certain level of comfort on her part. I know that if I did something to hurt a friend and a year later they still didn't forgive me, I'd be a little hesitant on our friendship too. I can understand that you're still hurting from what happened. When bad things happen they can leave us permanently scarred. But, I think ultimately you need to decide whether or not you can forgive this friend or not. If you decide that you can, you need to let your friend know that you forgive her and apologize for it taking so long. Let her know how you were feeling and tell her that you miss having her as a friend. She might be a little upset, but if she's a true enough friend she should be able to understand.
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well I did once email her when she bee adoving me for awhile. she tell me her feelings but thing is that hers wasn't compare to my and yet wasn't really was it about what she says.. pretty much mine is how ever is tha i feel like she thinkks i never been good friend to her becouse way her roomate treat me. it like u know whe u meet somone else freind. u know they always say something like hey i hard so muh about you.. or hey your freind never talk stoping aobut how crazy and silly ou u are something like that. i know kinda harsh take it serouly of somone else freind. but dose it so a sign?
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Hey! My name is Cassie and I'm 21 years old. I live in the suburbs of Chicago where I like to spend time with the important people in my life, play softball, and volunteer in my community. I am currently a junior in college. Throughout my years of schooling I have been involved in activities such as: volleyball, basketball, softball, theater, poms, choir, band, foreign language club, science team, and academic achievement programs. I am a Secondary Lutheran Education Biology Major with a minor in Spanish Education.
I enjoy getting to know people. I am generally an optimist and choose to believe that every individual has something to offer. Please feel free to ask me anything. I promise that I will consider every question thoughtfully and give you the best possible advice.
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