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hey!
ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
so, anyway, ask away anything thats on your mind =) no matter how crazy or whatnot, i'll ceratintly be here to try my best to help =)

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ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend?

Hun, I'm sorry you had to go through this. your boyfriend with your best friend? wow.... Those two are suppossed to be the ones in whom you can put all of your trust and love, and for them to have done that to you in unforgiveable. I would advice you to put them both in the past. You don't deserve having that done to you. You for sure deserve better, and i'm sure you'll find a much better friend, because lets be honest, no real friend would do anything to cause specially her best friend any harm...
And as for your boyfriend, if he cheated on you, you can't trust him. How do you know he won't do it again? or has done it and/or has been doing it already? I definitely say give him the boot!
Good luck hun =/

VB

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(Rating: 5) They had been having sex for weeks. Turns out he was having sex with her before he was having sex with me! :-( I dumped him and I dumped her as my friend.

This has kind of screwed up my life and I have some trust issues now, but if you hadn't encouraged me to do the right thing I might have forgiven him and stayed in that relationship! That probably would've killed me by now. Thank you!
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