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Q: its so hard for me to not be able to see my best friend in the whole world. he and i got really close in the last semester of middle school. those were the most special and unforgetable months of my life with him but now i wont get to see him that much anymore. we're going to different school next year so i wont get to see him everyday anymore. its summer now and here i am at home missing him so badly. we talk to eachother almost everyday but i just want him back beside me. its kinda hard to explain my feelings for him since i dont really even know anymore....i saw him nearly 3 weeks ago and i tried to see him again last week but he couldnt and this week he cant go to this one party. im just so sad about the whole thing. when i heard i might be seeing him again i got so happy all of a sudden but it really sux. someone help me please. btw we were never in a relationship but i used to like him and he doesnt like me.
As has already been said, you need to plan a day out, or maybe find a weekend you can play, so you can spend the whole weekend together :)

Even if its a while away, make it worth the wait and find some great stuff to do for that weekend.

However, as much as you love this guy, dont make him your everything, cos if he goes or doesnt see you as more than a friend, then you will have nothing and it will hurt you more.

If the weekend goes well then perhaps make another weekend. And see if he feels anything for you :)

Good luck


thanx but i dont think a relationship will ever work out between us. i really want to see him tho. and for now he IS my everything. yea its kinda sad that its that way but i just love him so much and he was always there for me when i needed him to be and i cant imagine my life without him. a huge part of who and what i am today is because of him. the happiest ive ever been was with him. and i just want that to continue cuz holy crap i love that kid to death =] heh thanx again

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Im just under 6'0, Im a model, I enjoy horse riding, figure skating, and shopping :)

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Im your average teenager who has suffered the same as any other teenage and much more, or maybe much less compared to some :)

Ill give you my answer as I feel is correct, if its a question I have familiarity with then you will get an answer which I find best suited :)

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