My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
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E-mail: lyndsey.white@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Lexington, South Carolina
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ok so im 16 going on 17 in almost 2moths and althow this might be hard to belive i've never really had a boyfriend and i mean i wouldnt say its cause im really icolated cause i mean i basicly hang out with alot of dudes and they usaly try to get far i mean too far with me but yeah on saterday i went on my very frist date and it was cool i mean we werent really alone it was more of me being the only girl with a bunchof guys going everywhere acrost town well yeah i mean we did kinda get time alone like when we would drive up to places so yeah every time we would go in some where we would kinda hold has to you know show we are on a date or whatever but yeah i mean long story short when he drives me home we get off and he walks me to the door i was not thinking at all cause thats the part when we hug good bye and say well i'll call you later or whatever but i mean i just walked to the door and opend it w/ like my parints and grandparints right in the living room with him just standing there and yelled good bye i didnt reolize i did that till i was in bed!!!but yeah so dont know what to do i mean im really confuesd about that cause to top it all off i dont really like him i mean i do like him and i know he likes me too and all and i know that if we go out again which we are on friday that things might get close and well i havent even had my frist kiss this sounds soo lame or whatever but yeah it gets even worse the worst part is i think i have feelings for my best friend who is a GIRL!!! i mean everything is worse what do i do how do i know if what i feel for her is just some fase cause when i thing about haveing sex with a boy their "thing" kinda discusts me is that normal??? sorry its long but im really confuesd (link)
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First off, this question was really hard to read. Using some grammar rules would be really helpful to people trying to read this.
One concern of mine is that you're a little immature for your age. I don't know you, but that's just what it sounds like. Being disgusted by a boy's "thing"...yeah, you're almost 17, that's not exactly normal.
There's nothing wrong with having feelings for another girl. Sometimes straight girls get little crushes on their friends, but they never act on it. It's just a little innocent crush. But there is a possibility that you're a lesbian. And there's nothing wrong with that either.
Don't jump to conclusions. I would give myself a little more time to figure myself out if I were you. It's not weird to be 17 and not have your first kiss yet. I had my first kiss, boyfriend, AND date after I'd been 17 for a while. And I don't think there's anything wrong with me. I just wasn't on the hunt for a guy at the time.
It doesn't sound like you're READY for your first boyfriend or your first kiss. If you don't like this guy, don't lead him on. That's not fair to him if he likes you. Just tell him you don't want to date him and that you just want to hang out as friends. As for your girl friend, don't tell her you have feelings for her just yet. If the feelings are serious, you can explore that later, but from what I'm hearing it's just an issue of you growing up.
Good luck.
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im very immature for my age but i mean its cool i get laughs and rude things said to me but i dont care
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