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Hi,
Im 15/f,
When Im in school I have a good few friends but when it comes to the summer hols or weekends I never hear from them and often meet them up town and feel kinda put out they never asked me. I have three groups of friends and a few from other different groups. I dont know if its my paranoia or at school they kinda have to hang around with me. I asked a friend could I go out with her and her friends one night and she said she would text me and she seemed uncomfortable.
Do they actually want to be my friends or is it my really bad paranoia??
Plz help
xx

Well, being a teenager is a difficult time. In my opinion, real friends would want to hang out with you outside of school. (Sometimes you have a few people you talk to in class but you dont hang out with them outside of class, like in the halls or whatever.) I wouldnt say its your paranoia, you need to think about it. Try getting together a few more times (maybe with another group of friends) and if it doesnt work out, maybe they dont want to be that friendly. If they dont even call or text you back, then they really dont want to.

Basicly, you dont want to 'force' yourself on people. So dont push it for months, they may only want to be friends with you at school. Try getting together with someone else or try making new friends. I know its hard.

Good luck!

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