I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.
I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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I REALLY like this guy. [lets call him Frank] I've known him only for about a month or so but we talk alot [on myspace, rarely on the phone] and his friend told my friend that he liked me and my friend told his friend that I liked him too. [sry if that was confusing] So, I was happy and figured that if we both liked eachother that we would go out soon. That was about 2 weeks ago and then 'Frank' was talking to a different one of my friends on myspace and I don't know the whole convo but he told her that he didn't like anyone at the moment. I'm really confused, I really like this guy and I would have already asked him out or something but one of my biggest fears is rejection and i couldn't handle it if he said no. We've only hung out twice [he lives about 30 minutes away from where I do so its kind of hard to hang out] but a week ago I asked him if he wanted to hang out again sometime and he said yeah but not that upcoming weekend but maybe the next [whick would make that this weekend] we haven't really talked about it after that and tomorrows Friday. I'm just wondering, how do I ask him (again) if he wants to hang out without sounding desprate or something like that? Like, how would I word it?
thnx so much. (link)
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Honey, everyone goes through rejection during there lives and as hard as it is, you have to face it. One of my fears was being rejected and i do know it is hard to overcome and to accept but it is well worth it. I have been to scared to ask out guys before and just ends up me feeling sorry for myself and regreting never asking them.
Next time you talk to him ask him if he likes you. If he says no its not the end of the world i promise. But he could say he does like you then ask him out! he does live a bit far away but if he loves you it wont stop him seeing you. He might not have wanted to tell that other person he likes someone because he might be shy.
Just go in there and ask him! It is hard and i know to ask someone out in fear of rejection but if, IF, it does happen it is easier to get over because your not thinking "does he like me? did i lose my chance?" You just feel really sad for a while but i promise it will get better.
If you find it just way to hard to ask him out then say "Hey i was wondering if you wanted to go with me to the movies (or watever) this weekend." Just sound casual about it.
Once you have typed those words "Will you go out with me?" You will be like 'Omg im such an idiot why did i say that' but a part of you will be saying 'yes i finally did it'.
Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Thnxx so much, I've been rejected mby this other guy I really liked and after that I just never really had the guts to ask someone else out again. I always waited until they asked me. I think I will ask him him to do something this weekend and see if what happens. That was alot of help. Thanks again.
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