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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14. (link)
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no, you should not go behind your parents back! there can be and are some major consequences! your parenst would find out sooner or later anyways, and think or not only how you would feel, but the punishment you would get! trust me, there are lots of guys who will still like you later on. i'm waiting for the perfect guy before i get into a relationship, and my parents set limits on when i can "date" a guy. you only need one guy, and he will be perfect! and think about it...whats the point in dating? the point of it is to find the guy to marry, not for fun, just to say, "i'm dating this guy". you can get seriously hurt! you start giving yourself away to a guy you probably wont marry! then think of how your husband will feel! what i would do (and have done) is write a list of standard you your your future "husband" need to meet. one of mine is that he saved himself for me, and i for him. i'm also saving my first kiss for our wedding day. think about all the long term consequences that will happen if you date now, especially behind your parents backs. also, ask your parents the reasoning behind their decision, maybe that will help. if your friends are pushing you into this dating at 14 thing, then your need new friends.
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