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As John Lennon once said, "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." So true.



Giving advice is sort of second nature to me. I use to have a column on here but ended up deleting it. Now once again I have decided to give advice again. I value people and their problems and try to help them the best I can.



No question is a silly question. Every question has importance. I sometimes feel like some of my questions I want to ask are viewed as pointless but have comed to realize that this isn't entirely true.



My biggest pet peeves are bad spelling, grammar and punctuation. It's silly, but I mean it's not that difficult to tell the difference between you're and your. Or even their, they're and there. No offense if you do any of this, but we learned all of these when we were younger in 5th grade (give or take).



Personally one of my favorite quote is by Eleanor Roosevelt. "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
If only people would truly realize this, the world would be so much happier.

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My boyfriend broke up with me about 7 or 8 months ago. We only went out for a little over a month. He broke up with me for another girl and it took me a while to get over because i still liked him. We managed to stay friends because we chill with the same group of people. Just a few days ago my friend told me how he was talking about how he doesn't even know why he went out with me and it was only because i had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". And now its really been making me upset and i dont know why, what can i do?

It's okay for you to get upset with this, I would if I was in your position. The only reason, he can think of, why he went out with you was because you had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". It's like he totally eliminated getting to know you at all, and just wanted to go out with you because of your looks.



The best thing you can probably do is call him on it, and ask him if it's true. If it is you need to say that it's not right for a guy to go out with a girl just because of how she looks, and that's it's totally pathetic and immature. Does he seriously think if every girl who lives in your town found out that's why he went out with a girl, that no other girl would want to even talk to him? How dumb.



Honestly, there's a ton of guys out there that are the total opposite. They're hard to find, but they're out there. Keep that in mind. Know not all guys are like him. For now though get you're feelings out and don't keep them inside. Please don't wallow if you're hurt, that's totally not worth it.


Good luck and I hope this helps you. If anything message me. :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks:) ill try that.
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