I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.
I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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-Okay, so I was dating this kid Dave for about a month and a half, and I had never told him I loved him. I never really thought that it'd actually make a difference in our relationship. As much as I'd want to tell him, I was scared of him getting scared and getting out of the relationship. But instead I lost him from holding back. I work with him now, and I am constantly thinking about what we once had. It'd been about 4 months since he dumped me, but I've still yet to move on. I've attempted talking to other guys, but I cant move past the reminders of how much I truly love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am scared of rejection. I understand that sounds pathetic, it's true. But my heart is just expressing itself. I really miss him, a lot! But I dont know how to go about getting him back into my life. Anyone have any ideas? I was thinking about asking him to the movies sometime soon, but I dont want to make things akward, ya know?
Please, help would be excellent.
S/N - CRASHCOURSEASHxx if you would like to help out even more! :) (link)
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Aww well asking him out somewhere wether its just you and him or with friends is a great idea because you get to spend time with each other and can share moments. Fear of rejection could end up making you regret never saying anything. I know its hard, but you need to just say it. Once you've said it, no matter what the answer is atleast you tried. If you do get rejected yeah you'll be sad but not knowing if there still is something is holding you back from moving on. Even if it doesn't work out, you guys can still be friends and who knows, you can still work your way up from there! Theres a million fish in the sea, and not asking him out is holding you back from moving on. Goodluck with this guy i hope it all goes well! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Aww! I loveee this response! It's awesome. Keep up the good work.
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