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As John Lennon once said, "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." So true.



Giving advice is sort of second nature to me. I use to have a column on here but ended up deleting it. Now once again I have decided to give advice again. I value people and their problems and try to help them the best I can.



No question is a silly question. Every question has importance. I sometimes feel like some of my questions I want to ask are viewed as pointless but have comed to realize that this isn't entirely true.



My biggest pet peeves are bad spelling, grammar and punctuation. It's silly, but I mean it's not that difficult to tell the difference between you're and your. Or even their, they're and there. No offense if you do any of this, but we learned all of these when we were younger in 5th grade (give or take).



Personally one of my favorite quote is by Eleanor Roosevelt. "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
If only people would truly realize this, the world would be so much happier.

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14/f

i don't have any diseases or anythinggg.. but then like.. for some reason.. i keep saying things and it comes out the wrong way. like when i try to help someone out or try to make them feel better, it comes out wrong. i think before i say something.. but when i say it.. it sounds wrong than i thought. i used to comfort people alot and stuff but not anymore O.o ... and then my boyfriend was playing around i told him "i dont talk shit! i sometimes js say something and it comes out wrong." .... there, i said something wrong right there again. -________-" even when i think before i say something, still comes out wrong. idkk what to do to help myself, because i get myself in trouble. PLEASE HELP ME.

It's like word vomit. I always do it. You know what you want to say and it's perfectly planned in your head, and once you say it it totally comes out wrong. Best advice is just to rethink what you say (know you do it already), and also think how it's going to affect others. Sometimes you know what you want to say but don't realize how it's going to affect someone. Try doing that for a while. Sometimes we don't realize that even one little word could have a huge affect on someone.


Hope this helps. :)

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(Rating: 5) thank you soo much!
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