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Q: I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.

Thanks so much to you all.
Well i'm only 15/f so I'm not sure if my point of view will help but i'll try. I don't think you should get an abortion. Sure having a baby will be alot of work and such but are you mentally and physically ready to handle such a huge life changing decision. And I'm not sure if this is possible but you could possibly place the child up for adoption and then keep in comon with the family and watch your child grow up whie you finish college. But I don't think the answer is abortion. And who knows maybe your strong enough to hand having a child. They're hard work at first but I'm sure it'd be worth it.
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