I'm a 21 year-old graduate student. I've been in several serious relationships and consider myself to be fairly knowledgeable on the subject. I've also had a difficult family situation and can sympathize with relative induced drama/trauma. I really enjoy people and like to problem-solve. If I weren't in my chosen field (politics/law), I would have probably pursued psychology.
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Location: Ohio
Occupation: Graduate Assistant
Age: 21
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Alright so Ive just begun to have an active sex life and Im really worried. Yesterday my gf and I were about to have sex and I could not get and maintain an erection. I had one earlier when we were still in foreplay but when it came time for sex I couldnt get one.
We ended up finishing up in otherways but whats going on? im really worried about this. I dont want my girlfriend to think that I dont like her or i think shes ugly because she really isnt. Do I have erectile dysfunction?
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The reason you can't get or in this case maintain an erection is quite simply because you're nervous. Is the whole sex thing still a little akward for you? Your girlfriend should know that it's not her, your, or anyone's fault. You just get so worked up that you can't...umm..perform. Try prolonging foreplay and see if that helps. Oh and PS you're way too young to have ED. ~Dani (f/20)
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yeah thanks for the advise. idk i just thought it was weird like its totally comforatable having sex with her, and weve had sex before, i just couldnt perform this time.
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