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As John Lennon once said, "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." So true.



Giving advice is sort of second nature to me. I use to have a column on here but ended up deleting it. Now once again I have decided to give advice again. I value people and their problems and try to help them the best I can.



No question is a silly question. Every question has importance. I sometimes feel like some of my questions I want to ask are viewed as pointless but have comed to realize that this isn't entirely true.



My biggest pet peeves are bad spelling, grammar and punctuation. It's silly, but I mean it's not that difficult to tell the difference between you're and your. Or even their, they're and there. No offense if you do any of this, but we learned all of these when we were younger in 5th grade (give or take).



Personally one of my favorite quote is by Eleanor Roosevelt. "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
If only people would truly realize this, the world would be so much happier.

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Well, i go too high school. At high school we have populars and well geeks and i really, really hate this! No one has the right to tell you who you are or name you.
Populars think they can boss me about for example 'get out of this room', 'go away, you can't hang around here'. Am really fed up i just want to answer back but then everyone will hate me, and my friends are scared because they don't want to be hated, and everyone eles sucks up to them.
i would really like to know how can i stuck up for my self without being hated by people.

Eleanor Roosevelt once said "Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." That quote totally relates to your situation. It doesn't matter in this case what you do since obviously you'll be criticized for every action you make.

Honestly what I'd do is just not brush this off and let it go. If they go to say something to you like "get out of this room" say something back to them like "why should I get out of this room? I have my right to stay here and do as I please." Might seem silly, I know but stand your ground. If they say something which will somehow contradict who you are as a person, call them on it. They say, "go away, you can't hang out here" you should say "why should we all just stop doing what we want to do and revolve our lives around your happiness? Why can't you realize that you're just like the rest of us and in 10 year none of this will matter."

Truly not one bit of what's going on will matter when you're older. Keep remembering that. The best advice I can give is just to stand your ground. You'll be damned if you do say something since people will judge, and damned if you don't since the populars will keep at it. When you stick up for yourself do it in a sense that they won't know what else to say to you. Especially if you make honest mature points, guarenteed they won't know what to say.

Good luck, and I hope this helps you. If you want contact me about anything else. I hope everything goes well for you since bullying is such an immature thing. It's truly the most pathetic part of high school.

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(Rating: 5) thankyou for the great advice! thats the best advice i have had on here Thankyou!
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